大家都知道我家有只“大黄”，话说大黄自来到叶家后，过着的是“皇帝”般的生活，每天除了好吃(从开始到现在，共胖了八公斤）更是好住好睡。。好睡的部分是，不知道从何时开始，它是睡在我那QUEEN SIZE大床上的。。我想这对很多人来说，是很不卫生的，其实我也晓得，可是“爱心泛滥”的我就是“于心不忍”把它赶下床。。我们就这样“悄悄地”同床共枕了一段日子，直到昨天才被我爸“抓MAX在床”而非常的不悦。
结果整个早上，我老爸是一直“碎碎念”，还“威胁”我，如果再让他上我的床，就要大黄“收拾包袱”走。。呜。。可怜的大黄。我唯有每次在它准备要跳上我的床时，大声地喝止它。只见大黄紧急zharm brake，然后露出一脸的“不解”，哈哈哈！DARLING,我是为了你的将来着想才被逼这么做的，哈哈哈！
写给大黄的一封信
大黄：
我们是“人狗殊途”，你的命算是不错的了啦。。不过自从有了你，我的房间是名副其实的“狗窝”一个。我的车满满都是你的毛，害我每次载人都在跟人道歉。还有我的黑衣永远沾满了你的毛，不能穿。每次吃饱后，你只会躺在那里，眯着眼睛睡觉，就像现在一样，“猪来的！”。。
你振作点可以吗？你是“猎犬”LEH，哈哈！还有控制一下，别流那么多口水，A..是我的“错”吗？哈哈哈....其实uncle aunt是爱你的咯，要不，不会连出去吃个饭，aunt 也要带着你。。惜福啊，“胖子”。。哈哈哈！(A..突然想到一个人，哈哈哈！）
54 comments:
haha
How old is the dog? looks cute.. :) Did you bring him out for walk ?
Ya, normally weekend provided i dun have to work..:)
oh he's 4 years old liao..he should look better but recently i just cut his hair..
丽梅，
哈哈！！这张照片Max 看起来好无辜哦。。有点像shrek 里头的那只猫。真可爱。你家有名副其实的四宝，家有两老如有两宝、你是个活宝还有一个狗宝贝。嘻嘻！！：〉
Wow. did you cut for him? not easy ya? I used to do it for my dog last time.. quite tiring especially she doesn't like it .. but now I want to do it for her also no change liao... so, have You brought him to the park at west coast?
sometimes east coast park sometimes ntu garden。。he is really my cute warm friend...
but "maintenance" is expensive loh, i dun noe how to cut his hair i leave it to the pet shop..
oh, didn't know there's one at ntu.
Ya, 'maintenance' is expensive but unless you have got the time, else it's easlier to let other 'handle' them.. they are most 'naughty' when come to owner :) but must admit it's a moment to cherish when you bath them or trim them . u know, that kind of bonding is just like with your own fren. Anyway, he is really lucky to be with you, my fren paid 2K and left the dog (3 of them) some donno who, when they left Singapore.
ya, very expensive for dog but i guess is worth it :) got teach your dog any skills?? like Jacky's variety show "oh gao mai zao". It is good to have a dog, a good companion :)
hi meinu,
how's yr leave so far? miss yr voice so air so muchy....hehehe..
max's cute...hmm...what abt toto leh?? i believe toto shld be more mischievous bah?...hehee
ooppss....aiyo..typo...i mean miss yr voice so much on air...not yr voice so air..hahaha....
cos i seldom got much time at home..therefore most of the time is my dad tat is taking care of,so toto can only come once in abt 2 weeks,like holiday like tat..
actually toto is smart..he obeys command and he is a very best friend of max..i think max misses him too..wait till i finish my thing, will bring toto back for "holiday"..
Li Mei,
Max is so adorable! He's so good looking in this photos & it'slike ready to receive Year of Rat :) Miss ur laughter & humor jokes on air for this week...
Feeling a bit down today as one of my good friend has serious sleep disorder can say insomia since 2005, she is very depress even psychiatrist gave her medicine can't help her... I ask her to listen to 1003 to cheer her up but her work place can't listen to radio. Hope she will recover soon.
Sorry to write such sadness in ur blog here... pai sey... Anyway all of us have to jia you for a better year!
I also have 2 dogs (small breed)
use to sleep with me,cos I really
treat them like human, really love
them, I think only those who keep dog will understand. Sigh... there is alway people making noise cos I let my dog up my bed.
Nemo, so coincident that we feeling down...
your friend is in depression since 2005? how's she now?
Ren, hope both of us able to pick ourshelves up soon rite, we must together jia you k. Anything u may juz drop me a line, we give one another encouragements. We are consider friends here liao :) I think Im ur aunt here coz I am not young haha.
U c my friend is a very pessimistic person, always think negatively & always worried about tiny stuff. Now worsen as it affect her face (outbreak of ance) & hair (out of sudden lots of white hair) due to not having good sleep for 2-3 yrs liao. I always try to reply her sms or call her asap whenever she needs to talk. I still trying hard to help her... Worst is her colleague comment on her face, dark circles etc I find they shld not, remarks hurt her further. I think if we were her colleagues, we wun do that rite Ren?
Nemo, i am not young...how i wish my friends are like you...(i am like you, always there for friends but didn't get same "treatment" :(()
but this is Li Mei blog, think not very appropriate for us to chat on all these all the time?
i think i also in depression but none of my friends understand ....
depends on how her colleague say those comments and out of concern or ....? i may or may not say ...depends....
Do not ignore her "calls for help" or even just offer your listening ears helps a lot! comments like "why you want to think this way, why you like that, why you so negative,etc" to her will do harm and hurt....at least she willing to tell you, she will get better...do continue to encourage and listen to her whenever needed....jia you!
you can recommend her or can accompany (if she ask) her to see doctor for her face :) that's help her. :)
Tkns Ren. No matter what we still be what we are whatever we can help our friends we juz do it. U too jia you!
nemo, that's what i always believe and doing but it really hurts a lot. do you have blog where we can chat? because i afraid we will "flood" li mei's blog here.
hey guys, feel free to discuss things here..so ren, nemo or others, u all are most welcomed to make friends here,hehe..
everyone, dun wori be happy ya...:)
jiayou jiayou jiayou ...
Tkns Li Mei. Yes dun wori be happy!
thanks! :)
Li Mei, nemo, i think we are all of the same character and personality but maybe i am like nemo's friend who tends to be pessimistic...but even when i am depressed or sad, i will still help and listen anyone whenever i can...but maybe because of all the happenings to me, though depressed and hurt, make me even more able to understand others (but don't know how to deal and cope...)...and not just give "standard comforting answers" (eg don't cry, don't be sad, you think too much liao, don't be too sensitive,etc...)...to someone who is real sad or depressed, that really don't help much...
so nemo, maybe when your friend call or sms you, do listen or reoly because you won't know how depressed she may be at that point and that may be a SOS call...i believe you will help her and she is lucky to have you at this period of time. jia you! I dun wish her to go thru what i went and still "suffer" :)
limei,
wah , so SONG ar, on leave somemore!!!!! shiok lah can enjoy no need to wake up super early.. hahahaha
finally can go clubbing liao looooooo no need scared morning buay ki! haha
Those who give more than receive it at times easily bully by ppl but nothing can stop us to stop helping lol.
Yes i agree with u Ren, those standard comfort wordings is not helping them at all. I always put myself in my friend's shoes & I analyse problem, solve together with her. Ren, u too slowly overcome ur problem & tell urself u can overcome it step by step one at a time. Dun 4get u still have few friends around to give u support & encouragement, include me lah :) Most of the time it's our mind play tricks on us... u tell urself u r nt suffering now much better than last time, slowly u will hv positive thinking & things will turn out well. Slowly u can do it, Ren I hv confidence in u!
nemo, exactly!
your friend really very lucky to have you! hope she can recover and i am sure she will with your help and support! :)
Thanks! you too! :)
Li Mei, u going back to work tomorrow?
Tkns Ren. Hope she will :)
nemo, is nice "knowing" you here. :)
yeah Ren same here :)) keep in touch...
ok :)
Hey Limei, my Chihuahua sleeps with us on our bed too....He is like our son...for over 10year liao...
Remember I showed him to you at Jurong East Stadium once during the decal promo last Aug?..
Hope to walk my 'son' and Max, and anyone's K9 here...It would be fun to have a doggy social outing...
Who else here have a doggy family too?...
Hellooo Li mei...your goldie is really really cute!!! i hv one at home too. He is like my baby. 6yrs old now.I am a dog lover. My goldie used to sleep wif me but unfortunately after i found ticks in my room i had no choice but to put him in my living room. Do you have any remedy for ticks??? I loved him so much n i wished he nvr grow old. Ur Max really look like my Oscar! Oscar actually belongs to my Bro's fren who migrated to Aust...He's been wif us for 4yrs now and he's become part of my family. Ur dog is really cute..got tat innocent look on his face like oscar...
nemo, ren,
finish my 2 papers 2day.. yupe.. comfort words r not use actually.. I used to be very depress.. then i remember one time i talked to a friend of mine.. i still remember that time when I talked all my feelings out.. she only showed mi a stone face and said its ok.. dun tink so much..then now, I don't really talked about my things anymore..is the mind that make u feel this way lol.. Ren,nemo 加油！！加油！！加油！！我花了很长的时间才明白只有自己能让自己和身边的人快乐。我也是很直率的。。也常被人误解，而且我还是那种 blur blur sotong sotong 的。。还被朋友骂，被射也不知道。。不过现在我想通了。错了就说对不起，不然就解释清楚，在不然don't give a damn hahaha!! Ren, u can do it one, trust yourself. Nothing is impossible. 人本来就很难做了，为何还要让自己难过呢？？ ：）笑一个吧，会美美，会帅帅，会变年轻，连virus都打不进。嘻嘻！！
Li mei,
Wow...your dog is already 4 years old~
How much you pay for the dog's haircut?
Just wondering!~ @.@?
我一定会时常来这里的。
其实最近我每天都有来，好像已经成了习惯。
Gorgor linked us together. i'm so happy.
我真得很希望有像你这样的大姐姐，像thomas这样的大哥哥。和你们在一起就会很开心。
hi xiao ji, thanks for your encouragement! :) yes, i do remember you this afternoon when i am communicating with nemo and li mei.because i remember you and nemo ever "response" to my msg to li mei during "that period". :)
I understand what you have said and though you seem to say in a very "easy" way, like you said you took long time to realise....because I met with too many things happening at the same time and are really too much for me to take it and i dont' know how to deal with it (is like dilemn of what and how i should do...) ... hurt by friends,etc....yes, like you, now i won't tell my friends liao ... think you understand why and how come, right?
but i am still trying hard to get over (a lot of emotion and "things" inside)... I so trusting until ppl always lie to me i also don;t know...is really terrible feeling to be misunderstand by many ppl and yet i can't bring myself to explain/clarify because by clarifying, that person who make them misunderstand me will be in bad reputation!
just like even a colleague who told me to do things and when boss scold me and ask why i do that, i don't "dare" or rather dont have the heart to say is my colleague who teach or tell me to do that...this is me loh, always get bully (but should i say is my fault for being "stupid" to listen and also not telling boss about that?...this is 1 of the thing that i don't know should i blame myself or what....)...i always "suffer" in silence but no hatred, but affect me a lot....
haha anyway, is nice to meet you here and all of us jia you jia you!! :)
Max has kind eyes.
oh, i have too... suddenly a period everything juz not right, affect mi alot.. i almost cope and even hurt my close friends n family.. then i realise one thing..no point really.. after all these, it will still went back to you. 球是会弹回来的。it took me years to realise it.. tat's y is no point.. is never easy but if u determine to do, it can be change. slowly ba, dun rush, things will be better. If is the worse now, how worse can it be when is already like this, right?
oops, typo error.. is cant cope.. :P
Xiaoji,
Hope u did well for ur 2 papers. Wow thanks for your good advice & encouragement. I used to be those got bullied but keep quiet dare not say back juz know how to hide in toilet & cry... After fews knocks & shoot by ppl, I stand on my own feet now any unhappiness or misunderstand I will talk it out rather than to suffer & then hv sleepness night. Used to work as outdoor sales, not my fault also get scolding & got to say sorry in order to hv their sales support, do right nobody appreciate, very sick can't go to service them also get scolding & said why I always sick. Hard to please different kind of ppl in this world. What we can do is our mind set to tell ourshelves be happy & ignore these nasty ppl.
Really kind of u to give us jia you! Ok I will more more jia you though "petrol" is very ex now lol ;p
then jia water ba :P 加开水！！加开水！！加开水！！ 嘻嘻嘻！！！
Dear Li Mei,
Me too, really miss your voice on air..but meantime also glad that you can take sometime to rest..do rest well and looking forward to hear ur voice on air soon! :)
Dear Ren and nemo,
This is my 2nd time writing here in limei's blog..after reading ur msg, just wish that both of u will be feeling better soon, remember that life is short..whether you are sad or happy, life still goes on, why not choose to be happy?! So do cheer up, there are (and will always have) many ups and downs in our life, lets just move on with a smiling face, okie :)
Ren,
I understand how u feeling so many things happened to you at a go.. Maybe u write out on pc of paper treat it as u r writing out all ur unhappiness & then throw away the paper, all ur unhappiness is like rubblish throw away wun take it back. Slowly u will feel better... I also understand ur situation ur colleague advice u to do work but end up scolded by ur boss as he doesn't want work to be done thisway etc. I too encounter such incident but I rather keep quiet dun want to create trouble with colleague juz got to accept scold & suffer alone. But all these the heaven got eyes to c who bully us as long we stand rite & walk rite, learn from mistake any problem we r able to solve. Ren, maybe if u can check with ur boss directly if u hv doubts in work or chk with other good colleagues who r sincere to help u. If not we juz learn from mistake dun trust the one to play us out.. All of us got kind heart, easily get bully nvm ren zai zhuo tian zai kan. OSrry borrow Li Mei golden quote nw become my fave quote... haha! Ren, more more jia you k?
ya hor jia water so that all our sorrows will be gone & become "huat" ah! Thanks Xiaoji :)
Hi cl,
Happy to know u here. Thanks for ur encouragement... yes life is short so we hv to be happy...
Li Mei,
Hope u enjoy ur leave & hv a gd recharge rest :)
chriscelia,
you can get your retriever the "frontline", it helps to get rid of ticks, i use it on max too..so no ticks. :)
my max's grooming is abt $60, i sent him to my pet shop at balestier where toto stays..
Glad to see you guys communicate in my blog, jiayou
i will only be back on friday, cu guys on air ya :)
Li Mei,
Yipee so happy to know u be back on air on friday! Take care!
Nemo, Xiao Ji, Cl, thank so much for your encouragement and sharing! :)
nemo, so now you will speak up in that kind of situation? even if your speak up will cause "trouble" for that person and "sour" your relationship with that person? (not necessary in the case of just colleague, maybe friends, etc)...
all along i am like that, but i really don't know if is it time for me to "change"...in the past i still can tahan but now the hurts and bullies are too much for me to take and make me very depressed and "confused"...
I know if just let go, everything will be fine but because of my character (I am very zhong4 gan3 qing1 and too trusting and also worried for others' feeling,etc but yet feel sad and hurt but keep quiet...)...letting go can be done if is someone who we don't care or didn't put in true feeling...
I keep trying to have positive thinking but yet many negative facts and happenings really "knock off" my positive thinking...so i will keep blame myself is it i too sensitive(i know is not but yet i keep blaming myself because friends keep saying is my fault. they expect me to be "perfect" when they will also react in the same way as me, that is, they can do/say things that way, yet "won't allow" me....don't know you all understand what i am trying to say or not...because i not good at expressing...)
Li Mei, enjoy your trip to jb with your parents! :)
yeah, jia water jia water! :) Thanks again! :)
ren,
请恕我直言，自开始看你留言以来，我感觉你有点忧郁。记得，若老是为某件事情而耿耿于怀，自己变得不开心，身边的人也会被你影响。。。一些事的发生就当是一次学习，说过了就算。。去吸取事件的积极面，而不是一直在事件里“兜圈子”。。记得没有人会喜欢跟“怨天尤人”的人一起，原因不是“唾弃”而是一直地“钻牛角尖”，会影响到周遭的人，我们所谓的NEGATIVE THINKING PERSON。如果你觉得我身边的朋友多，其实是因为我们都是快快乐乐地分享，共勉之。难道我没烦恼，没遇过想不透的时候吗？有的，只是我会听取我身边朋友的劝导，说说气气了就算 :)
REN, 记得要学习“放下”。。YOU ARE WAT U CHOOSE TO BE，你是怎样的人，就会有怎样的朋友，你同意吗？
我不会再劝你什么，免得跟你一样“兜圈子”，哈哈哈！加油，常言道：不开心也是过一天，何不开开心心地过每一天呢？有时，要懂得“笑看人生”。。。SMILEZ
Li Mei,ok thanks! :)
I do notice that i am depressed...
I will try to "get well"...
Hi Li Mei,
Thanks for replying! Actually i used to apply Frontline on Oscar. I am not sure if you are refering to the tick drop or the spray kind, but recently i heard alot of pet shops telling me if i use the tick drop -long term usage will cause liver failure. Perhaps its too strong for the dog so i stopped using. i koe Neem Oil is good. The smell is v strong..will repel the ticks.. but looking for other solutions too...my neighbour's dog has ticks so very often will crawl over to "visit" oscar which is unpreventable n inevitable..which is the reason why i need to think of other "Powerful" solutions...
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