我实在不知道要如何接受这个噩耗，我到此时此刻仍无法相信MC已经离我而去。。我脑里还能清楚听到看到他的样子声音。。MC，怎么会这样？！！！我还有很多事情要跟你说，这么多年也只有你最清楚我的状况，我们曾如此的“低落”过，互相共勉过。。你这样的一个朋友，上天就这样把你带走。。怎能这样！！！
我现在正努力地告诉自己，你没死，只是去了国外旅游。。但我每每这么想，我眼泪就掉。。我不知道我是怎么开车到医院看你，我也不知道我是怎么开车回家的，好恨好恨。。。好痛好痛
MC醒过来，好吗？我真的很舍不得你。。很舍不得
很痛，很痛。。也不知道该做什么。。只是不自觉地在这里“傻傻”地留言。。不断地上他的部落格。。
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发现写部落格是可以让心情转换的，可以让我有一个管道抒发心情。。不过也让大家能洞悉我些许的内心世界，哈哈! 不过， 请不要有太多的联想，因为我是个“性情中人”，所以你可能会常常看到我一时的情绪抒发，不过我也会很快地把它“删除”掉，就如我的心情转变一样..总之，谢谢赏脸登入。。 （本部落格纯属个人，请勿转载或借题发挥，否则必究）
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56 comments:
Limei, take time to grief..Dun noe if this will make u feel a lil better in times to come..the reason u feel sad is because u have shared so many beautiful memories..take time to miss him but dun think too much ya..the mind now will be hyperactive..if u have trouble relaxing, u can take lavendar tea(tea leaves)
Li mei,
I am Ma La Ding. Hope you can stand up on your feet soon...
You are e 1st person that came into my mind when I heard this news.
He has gone to a better place that dun have to worry about anything, am i correct?
This is e most difficult time.. But I think MC's mum needs most support..
Dun think too much.. take care..
i dun know limei,i dun know MC, but i like MC as an entertainer
i gng to miss MC king
Li Mei, I know is really hard to accept because of the "nan de" friendship. I am crying until now too. A lot of thoughts and feelings (in terms of yours, and mine... I am so sad because I understand how it feel to have lost someone who really understand and aware of what you have gone thru and wouldnt have the "energy" or "right person" to tell all over again....)
I won't ask you not to cry because is useless to ask you not to cry or sad but is good to cry out as a form of release...I lost someone and until now, many yrs has passed but still can't forget and hope that she is still alive...
Read your post in mc's blog and have been reading your blog. I fully understand how you are feeling and all those words that you wrote impact me deeply.. I think many of us still can't accept and crying...at least friends of mc can all get together to grieve but we (individuals who is not "related" to mc)have to cope with ourselves(friends won't understand why i am sad or cry...)
Li Mei,
真的是一个不能负荷的玩笑！我很爱MC，他的声音永留我心。
丽梅，你要加油！共勉
Limei,
you must be strong..
please take care..
Li Mei, you still awake?
Li Mei,
Still can't believe & accept that such a great comedian has left us so soon.... He has bring us so much fun, laughter & joy whenever he is on tv programmes. A good & humble actor who play his role well despite on what role was given to him. Also, he is a well liked & pleasant person to colleagues, friends & audiences.
MC King, rest in peace.
Li Mei, I am not good at words but want to let you know Be strong... Hope MC family be strong too...
I think my sadness is not so much related to him as a comedian but him as a sincere and good friend, especially in the entertainment circle for so long...How many of us has such a kind of friend, one who really be there for each other no matter what and when! This is what touches me when i read li mei's and mc's friends post...i will remember mc as a person but not as a comedian...
Thanks for your corrections & comments Ren.
nemo, what correction did i make?
My tears drops with you Limei because i ever lost a very very closed friend just like you and MC. I know how much you missed him now, i know how much you hate him now because all his love one are so sad about he just go without a word, i know how much you wish this is just a nightmair... but... Limei...this is life.. pls take care yourself.
can't help but cry as i read about what u and others have written on their blogs ...
i share your grief...
Limei san,
Let's hope that in the near future, the scientist will be able to invent a telephone line/way of communication which links to the other dimension. Maybe then, we will be able to talk to the one that we love who have pass on to another world. I believe, this will be very possible in the next 10 years or so.
In the mean time, whenever you want to talk to Mr MC King, just use your 念力, and tell him whatever you want. He may not be able to reply, but he will definitely get your message.
LiMei, like you, I have a good friend and great colleague that passed on suddenly, and tragically some years back...
Its shocking, its painful, its unbelievable.... I was very confused, very tough to cope...
One moment, they were there, chatting, drinking coffee with you.... Next day, they were cold and lifeless...
I can understand how you feel now...
Don't hold back your emotions, grief if you may...
Though I have not spoken to MC for a long while, we were from the same school before.... We did the same ECA then and he was a jolly fun chap...Always carrying the funny giggle...I will always remember that jovial demeanor of him...
Take care LiMei....
May MC rest in peace...
丽梅,
如果你想难过,如果你想哭,请你不要忍着...一直憋着对你没有好处...憋,只会让你更无法释怀...要哭就到你舒服的地方好好的哭一场...
但,哭了之后,难过以后,要记得...你还有其他爱你的家人及朋友.要继续爱他们...
Li Mei, me too...keep going to his blog and each time will xi2 guan1 look at the left side hoping for new update n then realise ....
did you sleep last night? i went to sleep after hrs of crying at 3am but woke up and went to sleep again and wake up at 7plus...feel so sad...
take care...
Limei,
I share your lost. MC's departure is so shocking. I know how you feel, but after the grieve, life goes on. Please be strong. This brought back fond memories of him when he was a DJ co-hosting the morning show with Lin Youfa with the then 100.3, and the numerous comedies he had acted. We will miss him definitely.
Limei, take care of yourself ok?
Limei, the memories will stay with you n his close ones foever. This is the most precious gift he had left behind for all of you. He made all of us so happy when he is around. He will still be happ there just that is a different place. He will still be able to see us there. Be strong, life must still goes on.
嗨丽梅，
要坚强，take care。
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Break my heart to read your entry and Mcking's video blog of him and u having dinner...... Love to give u a big hug.....Do take care.
http://www.zaobao.com/fk/fk080105_502.shtml
http://www.zaobao.com/fk/fk080105_501.shtml
the above links of zaobao reports about mc
Sharing...be strong.
http://koshiyen.twbbs.org/~ifplab/dl/walktourC.swf
limei, hope u to listen to u on monday.
dear limei, we are deeply sad to hear about this shocking news, not only you, but I believe is the whole Nation. This is a part and parcel of life, but it comes too early and too fast which we really can't take it. We will feel sad and we definitely will cry, even I am a man, why, cos we really love him, enjoy his laughter, his way of action, and lots...
But we must always remember, whatever happened is already happened, and believe me, time is the best medicine to get over the sadness, that what happen to me when my beloved father passed over. What we need to do now is to care take of those who are around and ensure they are well look after. Not only financially but also mentally.
Beleive in what you believe, always remember the guidiance given by Sensei, just chant in our heart and lead him to his buddhahood and hope to make friend again in his next life. Be strong, and let his memories will stays in our heart forever.
My Champion comedian,MC King, we miss you forever.
Wilson Wang, Bishan south
Limei,
Haiz...so sad to hear the bad news of MC King. Remember a few years back when me and some of my female friends went on tour with him... we even take photo with him and I still keep it. Never did I thought that he will just passed away like that.
I love listening to his programme when he was a dj co-host with youfa. That time I was early 20s and I will record his programme, now still keep it...not only i record his programme, ex-radio heart djs'programme i will record and keep it until now. when Radio Heart step down, UFM take over, I hardly listen to his voice/programme over the radio, until last yr 2007, I suddenly tune in to 972, heard his voice co-host with yongmei. That time i told myself in the heart, the feel is back... Just don't know y i like his programme, hmmm, maybe his friendly voice, interesting programme ba...in fact my father also like his way of hosting.
His voice bring laughter to us (listener). Take Care limei...
1003 listener
就不要太伤心了！
Hi Mike, your walking tour is so meaningful & encouraging.
Li Mei, hope you read Mike's link. MC will watch over you & all his good friends. Take good care...
Limei,
dunno how to console you but just to say must take care of yourself and may MC rest in peace...
Limei, don't feel sad.. Todae go Mc king awake.. saw ur looks not gd... Me also same as u.. when I heard he passed away, I asked Simon is it a jokes? Cos 2mths ago, he just come my company buy 1st class coach to KL. Now.. haiz.. I cried for 3hrs..
Hi LiMei, I can understand how you feel now, I feel the same too becos I just MSN with him a few days back to wish one another Happy new year! then I actually wanted to call him on 3 Jan to arrange for a makan session but didnt as I was busy with work.
I felt bad as if only i had call him, I might at least hear his voice for a last time... Very very sad now about what happened. I cant believe it's real till now.
I will be attending his wake tomorow afternoon so hope to see you and Thomas there. Hope I can control myself when I am there. Take care LiMei!
Regards,
Jason (Friend of MC King)/
Listener of Radio 100.3
Hey Limei,
pinkipanda is here. I just move into my school dorm in US. I am sorry about the news. I can understand how sad u are ..pls cheer up okay. Although I am not in sg now. but I will always be here to support you, and 1003 all the DJ. pls take care ah.
pinkipanda from Savannah.
Be strong! Li Mei~
Take care and dun think so much!
MC King will be remembered by us always!!!
yongmei from 972 say this could be MC fav song.. now let me paste the link for everybody to listen
http://www.st020.com/play/940.htm
i am so sad , i cant read this blog anymore..sorry!
Limei,别难过. 蓝欽嘻也不想你难过.
你唯一能帮他的就是,你对工作的敬业态度.这样在天堂的他,才不会觉得很难过
丽梅，
知道你很伤心，
mc和我老爸一样，都比我们早走一步了。。。
就如 这个
http://koshiyen.twbbs.org/~ifplab/dl/walktourC.swf
一样，
老爸、mc和我们早走的朋友，都会站在我们后方看着我们、祝福我们。。。
若mc知道自己没的选、必须早走一步，
我想他应该会释然地接受这事实，
因他就是个乐天的人。。。
我想他会是个乐天、开心的天使。
而他
应该也会希望你开开心心地 -祝福他 :)
丽梅，加油oh :)
-支持你的朋友、听众 :)
Limei, I am your supporter of 1003.The moment I heard about the news, you are the 1st person that came to my mind... I know it difficult for you to accept it but you have to. At least you still can recall all the beautiful memories that you have shared with MC. Please be strong, MC will not want to see his beloved friends to be sad...What you can do for him now is to help him to take care of his mum...so..please...his mum needs most support. Be strong, and let his memories will stays in our heart forever.
My Champion comedian,MC King, we miss you forever.MAY YOU REST IN PEACE.
丽梅，你要加油！
他没离开，上帝只是把他先接回天家
因为天堂须要 mcking 才会更快乐。
我们会在天堂相会，他会在天堂说笑话逗我们笑。
丽梅，把泪擦干，让 mcking 快乐的离开我们，回天家吧！
Li Mei, most likely you will be at mc's wake until tomorrow. I understand how it feels when is really the last time one can see the loves one and how much bu4 she3 de3.
I would suggest you don't look at the coffin being push in...is really too painful especially when to collect the ashes...those who didn't experience the "whole process" will not be able to know exactly how it feels to see that and when see a person "reduced" to just "small amount" of ashes...the degree of saddness is more than sad but zhen4 han4.
Is tough not to cry (but at least don't shout for mc while crying especially when the coffin is being pushed in) I heard that if he hear and see that, is more painful for him to "leave"....
Many of us are still very sad too....
Li Mei, cry as much as you can after that and that will make you feel at least a bit better...
We will be able to understand if we didn't hear your laughter on air, at least for a few days.
Although all of us would want Li Mei to be happy, but please also give her time and don't expect or give her pressure in any way that she will be as happy on air like before...Everyone need different amount of time to overcome this type of grief...Thanks...
Ya agreed with Ren. Give Li Mei some time to over come grief... Ren u too take care.
Hugs to you Li Mei. Hugs to you.
Take your time to grief and heal.
We will be patient.
Just know that we will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
虽然MC King 走了， 他最喜欢的歌，里头的歌词很美。 我想这也是他很想告诉他身边的所有关心他的，爱他朋友，亲人和我们每一个。他是幸福的。
有了你
专辑:陈百强
有了你顿觉增加风趣
我每日每天都想见你
那惧风与雨那惧怕行雷
见少一秒都空虚
有了你顿觉轻松写意
太快乐就跌一跤都有趣
心中想与你变做鸟和鱼
置身海阔天空里
并着翅在飞轻松自在
同吸清新空气
游来又游去湖海多美
抛开人生的顾虑
有了你顿觉轻松写意
太快乐就跌一跤都有趣
心中想与你变做鸟和鱼
置身海阔天空里
大家没太难过了。人虽走了可是活着的人还是要坚强的活着。丽梅，明天累了就回家睡个好觉，心情平复了才回来吧。我想MC King也不希望大家一直这么难过。笑一个吧：）
加油，丽梅！
丽梅，收拾好了心情才回来吧。 我们都会等你的。
Hi Li Mei & supporters,
MC make it in wikipedia.
Link:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jimmy_Nah
Hi Li Mei,
Got this link from Sharon Au's blog.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R4ARYxHZGrs
Lyrics:
Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am in a thousand winds that blow,
I am the softly falling snow.
I am the gentle showers of rain,
I am the fields of ripening grain.
I am in the morning hush,
I am in the graceful rush
Of beautiful birds in circling flight,
I am the starshine of the night.
I am in the flowers that bloom,
I am in a quiet room.
I am in the birds that sing,
I am in each lovely thing.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there. I do not die.
Hey Nemo and all,
Basic info posted on Wiki are not accurate at all...
Therefore don't take that too seriously....
丽梅，
保重身子，
在想哭时就哭出来吧。
爸爸走时，我还小，在念书，
也是很突然的，
接到消息时大哭了一场，
但后来的丧礼都没哭。。。
可能我希望那是一场梦，因此我把那当作是一场梦。。。
但后来，梦没醒来。
好久好久，
在家人、朋友面前都不曾哭过。
因为怕家人担心，
只会在冲凉时对着镜子哭、在夜晚抱着枕头哭，
然后第二天当作没事般又去上课。。。
那样的压抑方式，
那样哭的方式，
日复一日，持续了整整一年。
在老爸走了约八年后，
在和一群朋友说起爸爸时，
眼泪不受控制地在流、无法言语，
那是第一次在朋友面前因为老爸哭。。。
那时才知道，原来这么多年来，
我不曾面对过、放下过。。。
那次之后，
每当再提起爸爸时，
我不会再哭了。
只有美丽的回忆。
很高兴自己放下了，
并找回了美丽的回忆。
叫你不要难过绝对不可能，
但希望你，不要像我一样，
花了好长一段时间，
才找回美丽的回忆 :)
保重身子。
加油！ :)
*珍惜你的家人、你的朋友、你爱的人，
还有，爱你的人 ;)
给自己一点时间，好好保重。
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