Monday, February 18, 2008

小心梅女!

很喜欢看大家的留言,是充满了鼓励和关爱的,谢谢大家。。由衷

其实我到现在还在"认识自己”,虽然没有百分百,但我有一些“死穴”是你千万别触碰的

一。别质疑我,我最恨人怀疑我说的话或诬赖我,我会有很大的反应。我可能没主见,但并不代表我没脑。
二。别在我面前撒谎,当我傻子看,有些时候我不说,并不代表我不知道。
三。讨厌做作、常ACT CUTE的人
四。讨厌“醉翁之意不在酒”、爱利用人的人
五。。。忘了,哈哈!

第二至四条-我通常的反应是对他/她敬而远之,唯独第一条-我会立刻扳起脸、生气

我是典型的双子座。。不记仇,气过就算。倘若不是一而再再而三地“挑衅”我,我不会有明显的反应。。通常误解我的人,我的反应是两极端的。当你是朋友,我会极力地澄清,要不,我就会变得沉默寡言,懒得开口,随便你怎么想。由于害怕自己直肠子,快人快语得罪人,很多时候当有事发生时,我都会先跟好朋友反应,先听听他们的“分析”,倘若真是我的错,我会道歉认错,要不我会坚持自己的想法,绝不妥协。但随着年龄增长,我的“死个性”已经收敛很多了,可能过去吃的亏多了,现在会慢三拍才反应得来,哈哈!

其实你是怎样的人,看你身边的好朋友就知道。。“物以类聚”嘛,哈哈!

6 comments:

Maxx said...

想起了台湾偶像剧《微笑pasta》里女主角常常讲的一句话“只要笑一笑,没有什么事情过不了”时间宝贵~要嘛~唉声叹气;要嘛~开怀大笑~一切都取决于自己. 做一行, 学一行, 爱一行, 对于那些蓄意挑衅你的人, 让他们去吧.^^

10cationitot03 said...

嗨丽梅,

我喜欢上了你。。的性格。哈。我相信大家也是很enjoy游览你的部落格。加油呗!我的博客女王,哈哈。。希望我自己也能维持得主自己的EQ,新事物真难上手啊!

iN tHe BlOg said...

丽梅,

要到达你的境界我还有好多路要走。。。唉。。我常常太直,有话就说,也有时不认清事情就碰壁。过后就会很难过。希望有朝一日能像你一样、修成正果。嘻嘻!:)

ren said...

Li Mei, I am exactly the same as you!!

that's what I find you so "real" and why I hope you will always be the same "true"...

you ever say i think too much...but is really because of no.2 and 4 where ppl keep on deceiving me yet they thought i didn't know but I am very hurt just that i don't say (because I don't have the "heart" to reveal to anyone as they are someone i trust and treat them very well and i don't want other ppl to know that they are such a person...maybe will ask me then why they will deceive me, is because i am too "stupid" and is because they don't trust ppl easily due to their past experiences...last time i will keep on explaining if is someone i treasure but will keep quiet if they don't believe me even after many time of explanation (but i will feel very sad and hurt yet will continue to "treat and trust" them...so i say i am "stupid")...and wjust like you, i will keep quiet if is "nobody" to me...

I "think" too much because I keep "worry and try to think for the other party"...and not what you say you think "i think too much"... (actually you are also just like me...just that you don't realise you also "think too much"...:P) but we are really alike (but you are "better" than me because at least you are not as "stupid" as me and not as emotional as me...)

ren said...

Li Mei, I am exactly the same as you!!

that's what I find you so "real" and why I hope you will always be the same "true"...

you ever say i think too much...but is really because of no.2 and 4 where ppl keep on deceiving me yet they thought i didn't know but I am very hurt just that i don't say (because I don't have the "heart" to reveal to anyone as they are someone i trust and treat them very well and i don't want other ppl to know that they are such a person...maybe will ask me then why they will deceive me, is because i am too "stupid" and is because they don't trust ppl easily due to their past experiences...last time i will keep on explaining if is someone i treasure but will keep quiet if they don't believe me even after many time of explanation (but i will feel very sad and hurt yet will continue to "treat and trust" them...so i say i am "stupid")...and wjust like you, i will keep quiet if is "nobody" to me...

I "think" too much because I keep "worry and try to think for the other party"...and not what you say you think "i think too much"... (actually you are also just like me...just that you don't realise you also "think too much"...:P) but we are really alike (but you are "better" than me because at least you are not as "stupid" as me and not as emotional as me...)

myself said...

quote 三。讨厌做作、常ACT CUTE的人


酱你不是很讨厌STEVEN LIM???
那天你们在1003讲了他之后,我回家立刻上网看他到底post了什么东西上网
还好当时我还没有吃饭,后来也没有吃,第二天跟第三天也没有吃,以为想到他的画面会吐!!!!对了,这么久才上网跟你说这件事,是因为我才刚买了一个新的LCD,旧的那个,我看STEVEN LIM VIDEO的时候被我,我朋友在旁边,看见这么恶心的画面,就控制不了自己的情绪,把我的LCD打爆了!!!!第二天我还陪了他们去庙里收惊。。。哎。。。
黄文红还说要把他请上1003,拜托不要咯。。。真的。。很恶心,我真的搞不清楚,他要自拍就自拍啦,已经很恶心了,为什么还要脱衣服???心里有病!!!哈哈哈

丽梅你要加油哦。。。。
我听1003都是因为有你这个开心果在~~加油加油