今天访问了慧慧和莉冰。。很喜欢也“羡慕”莉冰的个性，纵然会得罪人。但至少是坦荡荡的。
今天莉冰说到关于“吃死猫”的事，我有很深的感触。其实我的个性虽然没有像莉冰那么“直接”，但我常常会在“装”无辜、可怜的人面前气得直发抖，根本没有莉冰那直接“戳穿”的举止。我只是会在之后，对这个人采取“戒备”，纵然他/她人前对我好，但我已不再给于信任。。。
在电视的那段日子，我有被“莫名"地遭抹黑、误解过。曾经看过一个“双面人”如何在有事发生时，装无辜、装事不关己。结果我被诬赖是“滋事分子”，可笑的是这人过后还敢跟我承认，对于我被“抹黑”，只能深感“抱歉”。。。大家可以理解我当时的痛吗？例子不止一个，太多了，不堪回首。。
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发现写部落格是可以让心情转换的，可以让我有一个管道抒发心情。。不过也让大家能洞悉我些许的内心世界，哈哈! 不过， 请不要有太多的联想，因为我是个“性情中人”，所以你可能会常常看到我一时的情绪抒发，不过我也会很快地把它“删除”掉，就如我的心情转变一样..总之，谢谢赏脸登入。。 （本部落格纯属个人，请勿转载或借题发挥，否则必究）
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Li Mei, I am now facing this problem and hope you can advise me.
I have a very good friend of more than 10 years who is a “双面人”but I didnt' know until about 2 yrs ago. She not only lies to me and treat me good in front of me but behind me, she carry tales to tell ppl about me. Not only that, she will try to "dig" words or put words into my mouth and because I am the type who will keep quiet when ppl misunderstand or accuse me! because if I tell them, she will lose face,etc....because of our so many years friendship (we really very good but I just don't know why ... perhaps she is too good at acting or pershaps I am too stupid...)...so I can understand the pain that you had and is really very hurt like knife piercing when being misunderstand... At least that person admit but she never admit and if she is good to me, my heart will soften and I can really forgive (but not forget)...but when that happens again,especially when she lies again....the anger or hurt will increase each time...is not easy to "give up" because we are (or should use "were" very good friend)...and I find it very "cruel" to accept that she is like that....I still keep giving her chances for her to admit and not to be like that...seems like she take telling lies as habit....
If is jsut ordinary friends, I will just not contact or avoid but someone who is so "close" , is really hard...
that's why feel very moody and down....
haha how come the previous post is back again?
HI。。我是来自JB的Joanne。。。。
我支持你很久了。。。（叽叽喳喳）
我第一次上网。。就留言给你。。哈哈
即使你不瘦身。。你也很美。。
我永远支持你。。。。。
加油。。。。。。。。。。
我和你同年。。但是我的孩子已15岁。。
所以你要快快快快。。。。。。。。。。。。
找个爱人结婚吧。。。哈哈
（文鸿也不错哦）哈哈。。。
嗯!我也有同感..
我曾经有段日子非常低落, 怀疑过自己是不是别人所说的那样"人际关系不好",后来才发觉原来不是,因为我就没办法像他们一样在那个人背后说人家的坏话,可面对那个人时却可以act like 好姐妹一样.. 天!:(
丽梅加油!
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