Sunday, November 16, 2008

安息吧


白老虎咬死人事件震惊全国!!!

星期五一早到公司就看到各大报章刊登连载的“诺丁死亡”镜头。。这是我万万都没想到会发生在我国,而且还是在万礼动物园。诺丁的死,是在一群人目睹下发生的,无法理解他为何会跳进虎穴?说是“意外”,但从他手拿着扫把和黄桶越过水池,一步一步地走向白老虎来分析,除了“自寻短见”,实在想不到其他的原因和理由。。。虽然现在诺丁家人认为他是中了降头。

如果他真的是自杀,那是一个非常残忍结束生命的方式。把在场的人吓得魂飞魄散不在话下外,其实对他的家人来说,那是多么的“歇斯底里”。。挥之不去的痛楚。连载的照片,可以让人想象当时的撕痛、喊叫、在场人的爱莫能助。。。我看了心里直打哆嗦,尤其是那张诺丁在被围攻时,望着其中一个“镜头”,痛楚的表情。而我相信当时在场的人是多么希望时间能倒流,让大家能及时反应过来,那不是表演!是否可以把身上的物件,有多少就丢多少过去吓唬、制止那三只白老虎?!!但这一切实在发生得太快了,相信没有人会想到有人会以这样的方式结束生命?!活生生地让在场的人目睹到这整个“死亡的过程”。。到底发生了什么事?我想这是诺丁家人,甚至我们每个看了报道的人,心中的一大疑问吧?但逝者已矣,纵然有了答案又怎样?是自杀或中降头?他的死让大家不忍心指责他,因为这4分钟“死亡”的过程足以令我们难过、心酸、让这“欢愉”的景点从此蒙上一层“心有余悸”。纵然我们不在现场,但那一连串的“死亡过程”,足以让我日后到白老虎区时,画面再次浮现。。。

诺丁的死,家人怀疑可能是中了降头。可以“相信”这样的说法,因为若是自杀,诺丁也为免对自己太残忍了。。。希望他的家人节哀。。安息吧!诺丁

话说回来,我们人真的是那么不堪一击吗?自杀是最好的解决方法吗?那天烧炭死的黎础宁、今天报章也看到香港男教师为情所困一跃而下30楼,白发人送黑发人。。只见白发苍苍、以收报纸含辛茹苦带大他成人的年迈母亲哭断肠。自杀多半是一时的冲动,有这样的念头,想想身边仍有深爱你的人,别忽视他们对你的爱,你对他们有多重要。凡事总会有解决的方法,“本来无一物,何处惹尘埃”,别太执著,要相信天无绝人之路。。。就像我照片中的这名小男孩,虽然失去了一条手臂,但仍乐观积极。。。虽然贫困,但至少爱他的家人都在。。

6 comments:

happy said...

Ppl who chose to end their life to 'seek' relieve fr their prob will only leave behind more misery n sufferings for those who love them. Suicide is definitely a BAD option. Take time off our busy busy life to show more care n concern to those around us n help prevent such tragedies...

u.p.s.e.t. b.u.t. n.e.v.e.r.m.i.n.d said...

Hi,丽梅

When I had a miscarriage of my 3rd child beginning of this month..I had a hard time..suicide was on my mind.

But I am glad I am able to identify myself going into depression with the helps of my family memebers.

I am still recovering from it, but I've learn to know how fortunate am I to have my hubby, my boys and families around me.

I believe, there's nothing that we can't solved...Be strong, share your problems with good friends and families.

Like what Happy said take time off from our busy life to show more care n concern to those around us to help prevent such tragedies.

Life's goes on !

happy said...

Dear u.p.s.e.t.b.u.t.n.v.m. Sori about ur loss. I hv been thru it twice..i feel ur pain. Take gd care of urself. Trust me, u will survive n come out a stronger person. Its only normal u feel sad but try to accept the love n concern fr loved ones. I wish u well n may ur pain lessen with time! Heal well =)

u.p.s.e.t. b.u.t. n.e.v.e.r.m.i.n.d said...

Dear Happy

Thank you so much for your encouragement...

I'm still quite upset about it..till now, so like what you said, it takes time but I will get over it.

Thank you once again.

Cheers ! (^_^)

Kelvin T said...

hi limei, hope that you can upload some songs, like the song by a duet that starts with "每个人的日子匆匆忙忙".

Kelvin T said...

hi limei, hope u can upload some songs, like the one sang by a duet that starts with "每个人的日子匆匆忙忙".