Monday, January 7, 2008

MC...还是不敢相信你真的走了


MC :
你知道我有多“习惯”有你这个好朋友兼听众。。
今天值早班时,我居然“期待”会收到你的简讯。。记得你在世时,都会锁定在我们的“麻辣馆”到现在的“不给一口叮”。每次说到一些话题,你都会传简讯到我手机来,说说你的看法或笑话。。除了你的支持,当然还有thomas,每次节目中接到你们的简讯,我都很开心。。搞笑的是,你在你那发简讯、佃裁在他那发,但我们却在同一时间谈论同个话题。。哈哈!你知道吗?你们都是我生命中非常重要的朋友,但这几天看着我们当中只“剩”THOMAS时,我的鼻子又酸起来。。

MC...

真的好想你,我今晚会早睡,你会来我梦中跟我聊聊吗?

好想你

20 comments:

CL said...

Dear Li mei,
What you are feeling now is exactly how i felt when my father passed away a year ago. His handphone no. is still save in my handphone list.
Actually the most saddest part is not when we first heard that they'd passed away, or during the funeral..the saddest part is after that..when you suddenly think of him, when you passby some places that you have been to with him, or when suddenly remember those things that you have talked to him..
I believe that they didn't really leave us, they just have gone to another world to live and will still always be 'there' for us when we need a listening ears.
So Li mei, let's put all the sweet memories in our heart and continue to live happily till the day we meet them again.

Supreme said...

we understand u cant be sad in front of the radio... and vant talk abt MC all the time.
but dun worry... we are feeling the same as u..

iN tHe BlOg said...

丽梅,MC还是会听不给以口丁的。He will be there for you always. 今晚,好好睡个觉。心闷时,想他时,丽梅看看天空。他会在那里看着大家的。take care of yourself also.

ren said...

Yes, just like i still will "qi1 dai4" his update in his blog...

ren said...

read before something happen between you and thomas that things can never be the same like before...maybe because of mc's death, both of your friendship will be "amended" totally?

sleep well and meet mc in your dream.:)

chsng said...

Dear Li Mei,
MC is very glad to have a good friend like you and I am sure he misses you too. However how painful it is, you have to pick yourself up and move on from here. 生 離 死 別 is something you cannot alter. Be proud that you have a friend like him and always remember him in prayer.

Fan of you when u are at 1003

sng

Blur Queen said...

Hi Limei,

I am still hoping to see MC update his blog even though knowing that he has gone to a heavenly place. Its a habit that I willd drop by his blog to see what he have posted each time i am online.

Really miss his laughter and jokes.
I do hope you take care and be strong.

Take care

Kit said...

hi limei, i cant believe what has happened too.. its so sudden and took place over in such a short span of time... hope that time will heal your grief, and remember to be strong and pursue what you want in life for your own happiness, as that must be what MC would want his frens to do...

chinarose80 said...

Hi Limei,

I just finished listening to your program and happy to hear that you are back to your normal cheerful self. But I know deep down you are still grieving. It will take time to heal. Please take care.

Eng said...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r3K2Q71xhHM

swastika said...

2 years ago, my late boyfriend left me suddenly. It took me months to heal my heartache so I can understand how you are feeling now.

There are limits to what we can control in life. All the tears in the world aren't going to bring MC back, so he would prefer that people remember the good things about him rather than mourning his loss.

I am sad...for him, his family and friends, for a world that is obviously short one good, filial, jovial person today.

Remember:
失去总令人舍不得
痛苦不是因为失去
而是因为不肯放手

May MC rest in peace

Bingbing said...

昨天早上听了你为Mcking作的告别program。很感动,也有一种很lighthearted 的feeling. 可以感受到他带给身边的朋友们多么多的快乐。他和他在电视一样,是一个开心果。He really inspired me to be a happy person.

Golf69 said...

Hi Li Mei,
Take care and be strong. He will watch over you.
We missed him too....

Unknown said...

丽梅美女。。。
加油!时间可以冲淡一切,但回忆永远会烙印在我们的脑里。人年纪越大,就要开始有心理准备面对身边的人慢慢离开你。当然,说的容易做起来很难。但还是要努力去面对,不是吗?大家都记得MC带来许多欢笑与快乐,所以请尽量收起悲伤,努力的延续MC曾经在这世的使命。。。欢笑。。。快乐。。。

Supreme said...

limei, time to laugh
http://soapbox.msn.com/video.aspx?showPlaylist=true&playlist=videoByUuids:uuids:88e8be62-d30b-47ab-90a3-6eea22d327ce

十指琴魔 said...

美女,
我是麻辣叮。
早上听到你的笑声,感到很欣慰。
我不认识MC,不过在念书时去过他开的卡拉ok.也见过他本人。
其实它就住在我对面座。上个星期天,我去买饭时,绕到哪里去。其实是想看看你在不在。想跟你说说话,又怕太突兀。。不过后来也没见到你,因为我是匆匆忙忙地走过, 为什么?因为有很多阿嫂站在那里看。哈哈
, 也不想人家觉得我等看艺人。哈哈。。你不要觉得我厚脸皮哦,因为每天早上都听你们说话所以感觉跟你们很熟。嘻嘻。。我是谁呢?就是那天在迪沙鲁少了几张回程船票的麻辣叮!!好了,夜了。该睡了,明早6.45我们再‘闻’啦,晚安。。

Germaine said...

take care okays (:

py said...

你走得匆忙,留给大家太多、太多的遗憾。



我们认识的时间不长,可是感觉很亲切,发生在你身上的趣事,随手拈来好几件,只是来不及,还有很多故事,我们都来不及分享,直至后来你生病,我看着你,无言以对,一个生命在我面前一点一滴流逝,我竟然束手无策,那种无助感让我极度厌恶。



想起相识的时候,我刚好回复一个人的生活,情绪有点低落,于是,我喜欢往你们的档口跑,因为那里有你们一群朋友,还有你妈妈的温暖餐,大家围在一起吃饭、一起抬杠,我喜欢扮演听的角色,仔细聆听在我耳际飘荡的一片欢笑声,心里的阴郁终于慢慢散开,除了时间,朋友的笑声就是最好的药了,人生因为有苦有痛,快乐才会更珍贵。朋友之间的缘分是很玄妙的,无法用相识时间的长短来断定感情的深浅,只要是能分享内心世界的,一天就足以成为好朋友,如果是话不投机的,相对一秒亦嫌多。



我们从来无法预知未来,所以总以为来日方长,殊不知你的病来得太突然,大家都不免有点惊慌,我不断祈祷只是小问题,希望奇迹会发生在好人身上,然而,你的身体一天比一天虚弱,无法再与病魔抗战,惟有宣布投降。



最后一次见你,我们没有任何的交谈,一群好朋友围在你身边,我也就提早离开,你对我挥了挥手示意再见,我万万没想到,那一挥竟成永诀,也是你留给我最后的一段记忆。



我的伤渐渐痊愈,而你的病却带走了你,一场生离、一场死别,这就是人生,我想是不是只要能学会看轻生命中的得失、聚散,就更懂得珍惜有幸所拥有的一切?从你的身上,我似乎看见了一些什么。你一定是一个对朋友、亲人很好的人,所以在你生病的时候,大家不断的送来支持和问候,如果身边的人将你这种大爱的精神延续下去,这个世界肯定会比我们想像的还要温暖。



朋友,走好了,你肩上的翅膀会带领你飞往天堂的方向,从此以后,你可以任意飞翔,飞过高山、飞越海洋,继续追寻你未圆的梦。

p/s:和你分享我在06年的圣诞节前夕失去一位朋友的心情。加油!

wen0607 said...

Dear Li mei

I do understand when a close one passed away, how our feeling is~
My father passed away 4 years ago
Actually when came to know about MC King's death related to 心臟衰竭﹐ it reminds me of my late father too
Cos he also passed away very suddenly without any words left behind~
I did regret that I didn't spend more times with him when he was alive
I was very upset during that period
Luckily when came to think of my other family members, I told myself to be strong
It took me almost half a year to recover~
Cos my dad was very close to me and he was my best listener when I had encountered some problem or unhappiness
Now he left us but he still live in my heart

Li mei, dun be sad and sleep well~
Take care!

meinu said...

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